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When Did We Get Devices Compared to Our Kids?

Remember when getting your first cell phone was a big deal? Now, toddlers are swiping screens before they can tie their shoes. Welcome to parenting Gen Alpha, where tech-savvy comes standard!

Television still reigns as the most common device children engage with, but according to Pew Research, over half of kids under 4 are already using smartphones or tablets. It's a far cry from the Gameboys and Tamagotchis of our youth.

As millennial parents, we're navigating new waters. Our kids are growing up in a world where screens are inevitable. But it's not all cause for alarm. Let's explore the realities of raising tech-minded kids – the benefits, the challenges, and how to strike a healthy balance.

The Digital Educational Playground

Some of us who grew up in the ’90s might be familiar with children's PC games like Putt-Putt, Freddi Fish, and Pajama Sam. These were known as edutainment games designed to educate children through interactive storytelling. We needed to sit at computers for these games, but today our children have the potential to learn at their fingertips.

It’s easy for people to scrutinize smart devices with all the possible addictive habits kids can develop early on. However, many benefits are overlooked. Smart devices have great opportunities for kids to learn various things through educational apps.
Take Duolingo ABC, for example. This app turns learning to read into an engaging game, keeping kids entertained while boosting their literacy skills. It's backed by research, so you can feel good about its educational value.
From language learning to mathematics, today's tools nurture a variety of skills to kids. While we should still be mindful of screen time, these apps can be valuable additions to our kids' learning experiences. On the other hand, certain kids' media don’t seem to have the same benefits.

The Source Of Screen Addiction For Kids

Most millennial’s screen time was Saturday morning cartoons. Fast forward to today, and our kids have 24/7 access to shows like Cocomelon. Let's talk about why some of these shows might be the equivalent of expresso reliance but for toddlers.

Screen addiction can be offset by teaching healthy screen habits early on. The primary source of screen addiction stems from content that over-stimulates the brain. Cocomelon is a show under constant scrutiny for being the reason why many Gen Alpha kids have development issues. The show by design utilizes fast-paced cuts and bright colors to keep kids engaged.

Psychologists and social media influencers come to similar conclusions that the show’s overstimulation can influence behavioral issues and early screen addiction. Children develop executive functions that allow them to regulate behavior around ages 2 to 5.

Content like Cocomelon keeps kids stimulated whereas shows like Bluey have a slower pace that allows kids to absorb and learn from the show. Bluey is praised for engaging kids' cognitive problem-solving and creative abilities while teaching emotional intelligence.

It’s important to be mindful of the content that will benefit our kids and moderate overstimulating ones to reduce possible negative long-term effects.

Smart Devices Are an Inevitable Necessity

Remember frantically feeding your Tamagotchi or sneaking in one more level of Pokémon before bed? We millennials thought we were tech-savvy, but our kids are making us look primitive. Smart devices are as essential to education as textbooks were for us.

The shift from Gameboy to iPad isn't just better graphics it's access to the internet. Schools integrate tablets into curriculums, turning lessons into games and requiring homework to be completed digitally. The power of learning with technology has its benefits, but it's also concerning for screen addiction at young ages.

In contrast, there’s the reliance on smart devices as a digital babysitter. After a long day of work, handing over a tablet to our kids as a distraction for us to gain some peace to finish household tasks is almost a necessity.

We're caught between embracing the educational potential and worrying about screen addiction. Smart devices aren't going anywhere, so our challenge is to harness their benefits while mitigating risks. We kept our virtual pets alive, surely we can help our kids thrive in this digital world too.

What The Researchers Say

As millennial parents, we're the first generation raising kids who can swipe on screens before they can walk. It's like we're beta-testing digital parenting without a user manual. We might not have all the cheat codes, but the American Academy of Pediatrics has some guidelines to help us level up our digital parenting.

The AAP suggests children 18-24 months old can be introduced to educational programming or apps. It is best to watch with our kids to help them understand. It also reinforced the relational bond with our kids. For children ages 2 to 5, it is recommended to limit screen time to one hour a day with educational content.

Studies also suggest too much screen time over play time can affect brain development for social, language, and emotional skills. Moderation is key to balancing the benefits and shortcomings when it comes to raising children on smart devices during their development stages of life.

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Leveling Up Our Digital Parenting Skills

As we've scrolled through the pros and cons of raising our tiny techies, it's clear we're navigating uncharted territory. From educational apps that make learning a game to the siren song of Cocomelon, smart devices are here to stay in our kids' lives.

We were Pokemon masters in our youth, we can master this digital parenting challenge too. It's all about finding that sweet spot between embracing the benefits of technology and setting healthy boundaries.

Remember:

• Not all screen time is created equal. Opt for quality, educational content when possible.
• Co-viewing isn't just for cartoons. Engage with your kids during their digital playtime.
• Balance is key. For every swipe on a tablet, make sure there's plenty of time for real-world play.
• Trust your instincts. You're the expert on your child, even in this brave new digital world.

As we continue our millennial parenting journey, let's cut ourselves some slack. We're raising a generation of kids who'll probably be teaching us how to use the latest tech before we know it. Fellow digital-age parents, let's power up, press start, and take on this parenting adventure one level at a time. After all, if we could beat Pokémon, we can handle raising Gen Alpha!